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Dear hot girl...
How can i get my boyfriend horny? we been together for 2 years and
still haven't had sex.... how can i get him to notice that i want to
have sex with him...
thanks,
jen
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Dear Jen,
Anyway, I hope by now you've resolved your problem with your boyfriend, but if you're still anxious and confused, I'm here for you. If your boyfriend still hasn't brought up the issue of having sex, it's possible that he's just been waiting for you to say something because he didn't want to make you feel pressured into doing something you weren't ready for. After all, guys can go to jail for that sort of thing!
My advice is to be honest about how you feel and what you want. You really need to sit down, face-to-face, with your boyfriend and have a one-on-one heartfelt talk with him about it -- I strongly suggest that you wait for a time when he's not A) absorbed in a video game, B) stressed about an exam, and/or C) when he's clearly pissed off or stressed out about something completely unrelated. Tell him that you love him and your relationship and you want to talk about where you two are headed. At this point, your boyfriend will probably get a scared look on his face, so you need to come right out and say, "I want to talk about us having sex, and what you think about it." If he starts talking, let him. If he stutters or hesitates, continue by saying, "We've been together a pretty long time, and I feel like I'm physically and mentally ready, and I think you and I are ready for it... how about you? Be honest with me." At this point, he should be able and willing to say how he feels, and whatever it is--good or bad--will bring a new dimension to your relationship, so try to respect and fully process what he says.
Don't expect him to be able to come up with an exact date and time; he's been caught off guard, after all. But do expect him to be respectful of your feelings and what you want, and appreciative of your honesty. If he brushes you off or tries to change the subject, don't automatically take it as a sign that he's not attracted to you; if that's the case, then he's clearly not ready and shouldn't be pushed.
Good luck!
P.S. Use a condom!
- Hotgirl
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