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Dear Hot Girl,
hey girl... its late and ive been doing alot of thinkin and stumbled upon ur page so i decided to see what you think and if you can give me some advice... me and my current boyfriend have been going out for about 10 months now.. but it started with his best friend likeing and me and they faught over me.. and i liked them both .. and finally went out with my current boyfriend who asked
me out on my birthday with roses... but throughout the relationship his best friend comes back into the picture alot and my boyfriends caught me quite a few times flirting with him.. and caught him calling here and stuff... and now i like his best friend alot.. and he likes me.. and recently my boyfriend has been treating me like crap.. hes totally changed.. he used to be this great guy and now he treats me like dirt beneathe his feet.. while his best friend is treating me good and being a sweet heart..
i just wish they werent friends .. and sometimes im kinda edgey about his best friend becuase
one day he loves me and the next he acts like he hates me..and sometimes i think he just wants me to get some.. but then alot of the time when we get in deep conversations he will explain that even tho he doesnt act like it alot of the time he will always love me and care about me.. and how hes always liked me .. and hes been so mad that he lost me to his friend.. i dont know what to do.. should i leave my boyfriend for his best friend and crush him and to an extent thats wrong... but its feelings.. or should i just end it with both. and go on my way with something else.. please help.. im so confused :-(
~ Confused Girl :( |
Dear Confused Girl,
If you're still in the dark about what to do, my advice is to first take a
step back and figure out what it is that YOU want from A relationship,
ignoring who you're with at the moment. Spend some time alone and reflect on
things in all of your past relationships that made you feel good about
yourself and the person you were with. As much as relationships are about
give and take, always remember that your own happiness should never be
compromised out of a feeling of obligation to the person you're dating.
Talk to friends or family members who've seen you around your boyfriend and
his best friend, and whose advice and insight you trust. Ask them to tell you
when it seemed to them that you were happiest: with your current boyfriend,
his best friend, or without them?
It is a truth of human nature universally acknowledged that when you are
single, the last thing you want is for your best friend to develop a
functional relationship with someone else. It's difficult to say what was
going on in your boyfriend's mind and his best friend's when one or both
developed interest in you, but that is NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Your only
responsibility is to be true to yourself, your feelings, and honest with them
both about it.
If you are worried about ruining the relationship between two best friends,
realize that while you may be the reason they fought, you cannot be held
responsible for the disintegration of their friendship; if their mutual desire
to kiss you was all it took for them to kiss years of camaderie good-bye, it
was never that solid to begin with.
Take care.
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