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| Why do guys only pay attention when they are horny and never call? |
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im really confused about something on guys. My boyfriend and i have been
going out for almost a year now. He seems to only pay attention to me when
he's horny or if i just woke him up. I dont get why this is. I ask him about
it and yet he says he doesnt mean to, but it happens so much.
Also, i was wondering why is it that guys will call for like the first week,
but after that its likt torture to get the to call you. I know he wants to
talk to me. He's always e-mailing me telling me to call him and that he hopes
to talk to me today and/or see me today. I know he enjoys my company and
we've had some pretty wonderful times together. I just dont understand why
its so hard to call me especially when he says he loves me.
sincerely,
puzzled |
Dear Puzzled,
Even if your boyfriend doesn't mean to only pay attention to you at certain
times, he is still doing it. That doesn't make it right. You might want to
try ignoring HIM when he's horny--that way he knows how it feels. Maybe then
he'll realize how he's acting towards you and change it.
If you are referring to your boyfriend in your second question and you've been
dating for a year AND he says he loves you, you've got a HUGE problem. The
situation you describe to me seems to be the classic "game playing" that most
new couples go through. The guy calls, then he thinks that he's paying too
much attention to the girl, so he stops calling, then the girl starts calling
a lot, and the guy figures he can be lazy and stop calling, but the girl is
upset that he's not calling, so she calls more, etc. etc. etc. It's a vicious
cycle that no one ever really knows how to stop. My advice would be for you
to NOT call him. And when he tells you "I hope I get to talk to you today"
then you respond with "Then call me." That's all! Don't feed into his game.
If he wants to call you, he has a finger and a phone and knows your freakin
phone number, am I right?! Unfortunately, you have to play into the game if
you want to win.
Good luck!
Hot Girl |
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